DrupalCon that last week. Why am I leaving? Not because I dislike my current position at all, but a solid offer came my way in the form of a lead development position at Rise. Its an opportunity to build up a (much) smaller team than I'm used to (16000 employees at FH, 8 at Rise) and try my hand at leading. Its a little nerve racking, but I believe I'm up for the challenge.
Employment begins full-time at Rise on March 21st, although I've already taken on technical lead for two projects, and am actively developing on another. I've committed to an extra 10-12 hours of time per week leading up to my employment to make sure deadlines are met. Also, there's a need for a re-work of Rise's development/staging/vcs environment, so I've taken on that challenge as well. In tandem with that, I'm also working toward wrapping up existing projects at FH, as well as handing off my current responsibilities to my co-workers.
Over the last two weeks, I've become to realize how much of a challenge my current situation is. Between two jobs and finishing up outstanding side jobs, my work/life needle has been buried deep into the former. I have a beautiful wife, great family and friends, but hardly any time to see them. Even when I get those opportunities, its easy for me to drift back into what daemons still need to be set up on a new server, security, refactoring a class, Drupal theming, version control methodologies, books I haven't read, movies I haven't watched, articles in my Google Reader queue...
Its all quite overwhelming.
To compound this busy-ness, as my wife can attest, I have a terrible memory. She has an uncanny ability to remember minute social details (both in the future and past) that I, unless aforementioned event is in my calendar, cannot recall without some sort of cue. This leads to me forgetting simple day-to-day necessities and double-booking events. To combat this issue, I now fully rely on my calendar before committing to anything... which has helped a lot, but makes me feel dependent.
Now, I don't have an ultimate epiphany or really any concrete direction for this post, Its simply therapeutic to see this on screen (and helps with my new goal of blogging). I'm lucky to have a wife who invests in our relationship and helps remind me that work shouldn't be all-consuming. I love her for her support and focus on the lighter side of life (vacations, namely :) ). She truly is the reason why I'm able to pull back from the developer's tendency to completely get lost in work, and move the work/life needle more to the center where it belongs.